The best way to show your Love for someone is by being happy and loving when you are with them. No matter what the situation is that they may be experiencing at the moment ; be it a happy time, a sad time, or just a plain uncomfortable time. The best thing you can do is just be there with them. Many times we feel that we need to fix , or make the situation easier for the person by enabling them. In truth we are not really loving ourselves or them by enabling them. Everyone is on a journey and to complete the journey we need to face all adversity that comes our way head one and realize that it is a gift from the universe to help us weed out the addictive demands (Hang ups) that keep us from living a happy peaceful life.
Don’t get me wrong ,I am not saying that you should not be compassionate, understanding, caring, and loving. I am saying you should not internalize and emotionalize their situation an make it a part of your journey. The purpose of this beautiful journey that we are on is to lighten our load as we go along in order to live loving, peaceful lives and be bright shinning stars to help light the way for others.
Jeanne Cattouse/ Lovingiskey.com
